IN MEMORIAM: STEVEN CORBIN*

*(For the next couple of days we’re not going to post the usual bonanza of links and feeble witticisms. Frightful cliché though it may be, the approach of forty has cast us into a slightly more reflective bent, hence today’s and tomorrow’s more personal – albeit still literary – posts. We apologize in advance for any excesses found herein. The usual OCD tomfoolery resumes late Monday.)

Steven Corbin was the first novelist I knew personally. He died nine years ago this month at the age of 41 from AIDS-related complications. I think about him often but have never written about him outside of my journals.

I met Steven in 1990. I had enrolled in a fiction class he was teaching at UCLA. Before the class began, I picked up a copy of his debut novel No Easy Place to Be, a tale of three sisters set against the Harlem Renaissance. I didn’t love the book but I liked stretches of it, and I reminded myself that the best teachers weren’t necessarily the best writers (nor vice versa). I turned out to have been right on that count – Steven was an inspiring writing teacher. It’s a shopworn cliché to speak of passion, but Steven had it from the first moment he stepped up in class. It was, in many ways, his defining characteristic. His enthusiasms poured forth and he was intemperate in the best and most constructive ways possible.

He cut a formidable figure, a six-foot-two, muscular, dreadlocked black man who was openly gay. I would watch people circle him warily, unsure what to make of him, wondering if they should be afraid. Inevitably the deeply gentle side of his nature would reveal itself and all but those with the most preconceived notions embraced him.

I learned a great deal from Steven in that class, although it was less about writing and more about writers. He insisted I read Toni Morrison, James Baldwin, and a dozen others. Through him I met Terry McMillan, Octavia Butler and Trey Ellis. And when the class ended, our friendship continued. Over the years, we had a standing Sunday morning breakfast at my place, where I would make pancakes and we’d talk about books and writing for hours. (He mentioned this in the acknowledgements of his third and last book A Hundred Days From Now.) He was always supportive of my writing, although I’d offered up precious little to base that on. Still, in the inscription he wrote in my copy of No Easy Place to Be, he wrote – among other things – “Get in print!” I’ve always regretted that he didn’t live to see that happen.

In the end, though, the things I learned from Steven extended out beyond the realm of the written word. Even though I’d grown up in racially diverse New York, I’d lived too long in L.A. and my circle was a bit too lily white. Steven would speak of watching white people cross the street to avoid him; of police harassing him for walking in his neighborhood; of women locking their car doors at the sight of his approach. (This last one wounded me the most; how could anyone fear this kind, gentle man?) I remember my mortification when the first Rodney King verdict came out. Amid the riots, I wrestled down my shame to call him and to tell him that day how terribly sorry I was, and I how was ashamed of being white in Los Angeles. He was profoundly moved by that.

He used to call me a “model heterosexual” – I took some pride in that. I was utterly at ease with him and with his sexuality. I never felt guarded around him in any way – not that he would have ever stood for that. Steven was an early warrior on the front line, a member of Act Up, a regular participant in needle exchanges, politically active on all fronts. For all his gentleness, he also had a tumultuous raging side. He was furious about the climate toward gays in Reagan’s and then Bush’s America. Being black and gay he was, in many ways, the ultimate outsider, much like his hero James Baldwin. And like Baldwin, he never stopped banging angrily for the attention of anyone who would listen. Amid all that, it never occurred to me that he might be ill. So when he mentioned – quite casually, almost in passing – during one of our Sunday breakfasts that he was HIV-positive. I was stunned and devastated.

He looked at me from across the table, realized that I hadn’t yet known (he thought he’d told me before) and he said, “I’ve shocked you.” I remember mumbling something non-committal but before I could process it, Steven began talking at length and with this trademark enthusiasm about how was confident of his chances of beating it, that he was healthy, his t-cell count was good, that he was going to lick it. I nodded and was supportive but later that day in my journal, I wrote one sentence: “Steven is going to die.”

Remember, this was more than ten years ago and the state of AIDS medication was not what it was today. And Steven didn’t have the financial resources of a Magic Johnson. From where I was sitting, my friend had been sentenced to death.

During this time Steven had finished his second novel, Fragments that Remain, and had begun his last one, a barely veiled roman a clef about his own lover’s struggles with the disease. As he was finishing up the book, he began to talk about moving back to New York. L.A. was at that time uncongenial to his literary ambitions, and he said he wanted to live in a real literary city. But I also suspected that he wanted to go home, to be able to die with family.

I visited him during one of my New York visits, had a wonderful dinner at an uptown soul food place, talking books and politics into the wee hours. As we parted company and he went off into a cab, I wondered – despite his good health – if I would ever see him again.

It remains a source of guilt and shame for me that I abandoned him in his last days, which came quickly and soon after that dinner. Like so many people, I’ve never developed sufficient mechanisms for coping directly with imminent death. I wanted to be there for my friend but didn’t know how. He called me a few weeks later and I could hear in his voice that something was wrong. He told me health problems were beginning to surface – thrush, bad blood workup – and for the first time, he was scared. The bravado and confidence crumbled and I listen to him miles away as his voice broke. “My God, Mark, I’m so scared,” he said. I hear that voice still, to this day.

I said what I suspect many people might have said; offered up words of hope, of confidence. But they were all false and they sounded brittle and hollow in my ear. I've always wondered - along with much else - what Steven thought as he hung up the line. I know I didn’t go back to New York. Didn’t look in on him, visit him in the hospice.

Some time after that, a friend of mine was visiting me from New York. He was on the couch, reading the L.A. Times when he saw Steven’s obituary. That’s how I learned he’d died. A few days later, Doug Sadownick remembered him in greater detail for the L.A. Weekly. Sadownick’s piece confirmed what I’d suspected – the end had been particularly hard on Steven, and he hadn’t gone gentle into that good night.

Steven – like all the others who have died from AIDS – missed out on so much. When I googled him for this essay, I was disappointed at the paucity of hits generated for this man who left behind three novels, whereas blog prattlers like myself fill pages and pages. Still, I was pleased to find this essay – Steven would have loved seeing himself called a “ groundbreaking queer black writer”:

These writers also attempt, with their own loud dissenting voices, to shatter the seemingly unbreakable silence over the fact of black queers and the prevalence of HIV/AIDS in the black community. Citing the work of groundbreaking queer black writers (sadly all now dead) like Joe Beam, Essex Hemphill, Marlon Riggs and Steven Corbin, they lament the refusal to slam the status quo of denial within the black community that queers are not simply some by-product of slavery but are individuated lives.

Steven also would have loved the blog revolution. He would have read The Elegant Variation – and all the others – every morning, peppering them with comments, criticisms, suggestions, all the while keeping me honest, something he did so well. The conversation is one rich voice poorer.

As for the matter of his books. I would love to tell you that I loved Steven’s work as much as I loved the man. But I didn’t. No Easy Place to Be, as I said, has some moments certainly. But the other books simply aren’t very good. They are unsubtle, heavy handed, often trite. I think Steven knew he was running out of time and couldn’t afford the luxury of subtlety in print any more than he could in his personal dealings. But I know that he wanted these works left behind to outlive him, to echo on his behalf.

The books are all out of print but are readily available used, often for as little as a dollar. Perhaps you’ll consider seeking them out, making the modest investment to own a copy. Perhaps you’ll find something more in the books themselves than I did. Either way, it seems an awfully small price to pay to help my friend live on in some form, on your bookshelves, that place where he most wanted to end up. Better there than sitting in warehouses and remainder piles.

Requiescat in pace.

Comments

[Dan Wickett]

Consider them bought - anybody that could bring somebody to write a post like that nine years after their death sounds like the type of man who should have at least one of his wishes come true, and if it's seeing his books on real shelves and not bundled up somewhere I'm glad to be part of it. Thanks for going into the journals and reminding us to sometimes think about those who have helped us get to where we are.

[MG]

I was taking some classes at UCLA around that time but hadn't heard of him. This post is a wonderful introduction.

[Scott]

Very nice piece, Mark. Links are all well and good, but consider this a formal request for more of this type of writing on the blog.

[Jimmy Beck]

I second that emotion. A moving tribute.

[Carl Peel]

Nice.

I hope your birthday isn't too harrowing.

[Michael]

It's moving to see you write with such candor about how Steven's life touched you when he was alive, but also how that life continues to touch you, nine years on.

[paul terwelp]

I think that was one of your best pieces. I'm hopeful that you will be inspired by some more pleasant occurances than the death of a friend and growing terribly old.

[gwenda]

Mark, this is beautiful.

[DBFEB]

I found this looking for more Steven Corbin books. I was given both of his novels three weeks ago and went through both of them. I was hoping that even though he was writing about AIDS/HIV that maybe he wasn't sick himself. You may not have cared for his writing but it was easy reading for me which I loved. So sorry that he died the way he did and that you lost a friend personally.

[Beth]

Thank you so much for remembering my friend and writing teacher Steven Corbin in this eloquent tribute. He would be so touched and pleased that he mattered so much to so many of us. I was in his writing course at UCLA and a member of a writing group he held at his house; we quickly became friends and I suspect the same was true for him with so many of his student admirers. I lost touch with him when I moved to London and, knowing he was HIV positive, wondered about his fate. I found his obit a couple of years ago but nothing personal until now. I think of him often and miss him. What a loss but thank you again for reminding us of the beauty of this wonderful man.

[Alice Corbin Dieudonné]

Thank you so much for writing about my first-born nephew. I was looking for his last novel, then decided to type his name on the Google browser and there he was. He was so special to me; we were very close and could talk about anything. Just reading about him here has sparked so many memories. Again, thank you.

[squid]

i came across your blog while looking for essays on steven's work. unfortunately, the link to the essay you quote from does not work. i wonder if you could give me the bibliographical information?

[Toni]

Tonight, for no apparent reason, Steve Corbin came to mind. So, I started searching the web for his name. We use to work together at a law firm downtown LA back in the early 1980s. He use to call me "boots" because of a pair of knee-hi boots I use to wear. He was fun, but he was also very determined about a book he was writing. I also remember being invited to his house with several other people to celebrate his published book of poetry. I'm not black nor gay, but I can only imagine. . . Writing was his passion to fulfill his needs.
I would like to say more, but maybe I'll write about my thoughts one day.
I miss your laugh, Steve. It is hard to believe you are gone. The 80s were just yesterday.
Toni 9/4/07

[Anita]

I too worked with Steve and Toni at that same downtown LA law firm in the '80s. Steve & I spent many lunch hours, dinners with his friend, Hugo, attending plays at the Shubert Theater, talking about life and our experiences as a straight Black woman & Black gay man. I just loved Steve as he was for real. What you saw was "what you got." He was a friend and I still miss him after all these years. I wasn't there when he passed away because it seemed to happen so fast. He is a friend I will never forget.

[Tracey]

I took one of Steven's writing classes at UCLA and was a part of a writing group at his home after the class ended. He was a wonderful human being and I don't know what made me think of him tonight, but I'm so glad I found your blog. I had no idea he had passed away and this makes me so sad. It's nice to know he touched not only my life, but the lives of many many others.

[reece "larry" ewing]

Steven was my BFF. I loved him dearly. I miss your conversations and travels deeply. I was with Steven on the day of his passing and it was a profound day that changed my life.

[gar]

Thank you for posting this.

[a lundy]

Steven Corbin is actually, probably, perhaps my favorite writer and I live for 'No Easy
Place TO Be'. One year I brought all that were in print, I lend them to friends&I make sure I get them back.
I was overjoyed to locate some personal commentary on him as I, myself prepare applications to MFA programs.
Lastly, I disagree, I think he was an incredible writer&as I said, I live for 'No Easy Place to be' and was incredibly saddened when I learned after reading it when it debuted, that there would not be many more.
It's crazy, I know, but this writer who did not write many books told a story about my hometown and I really do think of him and his work every day.

[Linda]

I too had Steve come to mind today.. I was dusting my book shelves and came across 2 of Steve's earlier poetry that he had given me.. The Missing Pages and If I Were a Poet, as well as his draft of The Book of Roman. I wondered what he was doing and so googled and came across this memorial to him. I was so saddened to realize he was no longer with us. I met Steve in 1980 but once I left LA in '88 lost touch as lives moving in different directions do. He was a special, creative, vibrant man who always voiced his beliefs. At that time we were a small group of friends in Silver Lake, gay or not, who enjoyed spending time together .. Be it a day at Laguna Beach or having dinner. He is missed.